Jerrico Usher

Wondering (Women Only) If Your Compatible With Me? Read This Report (It's Dead On)

Jerrico Usher,

eHarmony Compatibility

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A couple years ago when eHarmony first came on the scene I took their compatibility test and got this report. I found it incredibly accurate so I saved it. Good thing too because they have since changed their format and the new one is too short and to the point, lacking the depth this one has. Here is the report I got right off the site itself. I answered the questions brutally honest and this should give you an idea of who I am and who I’m compatible with.

Jerrico's Compatibility Profile Summary

No person can be fully described or defined by a few short sentences. However, here are several of the most important characteristics revealed by your eHarmony Compatibility Profile that you should keep in mind as you search for your ideal mate:

Some of your ideal mate's strongest personality characteristics are:

She is always a very loyal and reliable friend.

She is very caring, compassionate and sensitive towards the needs of others.

She generally prefers to solve problems based on rational causes, rather than emotions.

She often enjoys doing something on the "spur of the moment," without a lot of advanced planning.

Some important qualities that your ideal partner brings to the relationship are:

She tends to be lighthearted and shares your humorous view of the world.

She is very happy with her life.

Her easy conversational manner makes her a great companion.

It is easy for her to see other's points of view.

Important goals and values for your ideal mate in a relationship are:

Working to give something back into the community is important to her.

She needs to feel that she is helping others.

She occasionally enjoys spending time with children.

There are some trends and fads she doesn't agree with.

Social Orientation describes how much of your behavior is motivated by the desire to get along with and be liked by other people, as well as how much is driven by the desire to be seen as an effective problem solver and self sufficient. People with a strong External Orientation place a high value on communicating their thoughts and feelings with other people.

People with a strong Internal Orientation place a high value on individual effectiveness, competence and autonomy The dimensions that we assess as part of your Social Orientation are Conflict Management, Character, Vitality and Security, Communication Style, Kindness and Autonomy.

Based on your profile, you are most compatible with women who fit the following descriptions:

Communication: Your ideal mate truly enjoys conversations. She talks easily with almost anyone and rarely runs out of things to say. She will be open in expressing her thoughts and observations about life and will want you to do the same. She's social, so she likes things like talking on the telephone or leisurely conversations over a cup of coffee.

Character: Your ideal mate is a woman with a can-do attitude who likes to help others. She feels bad when someone's having a hard time and wants to help. Her friends say she is compassionate and generous.

Some additional details about your ideal mate:

Kindness: Your ideal mate goes out of her way to do nice things for you. She's the kind of person who will let you know she cares, whether it's surprising you with baseball tickets or making you your favorite meal. She won't take you for granted. She wants to be there for you when you have a problem.

Autonomy: You will be best matched with someone who wants to know all of the important things about your past. She'll be equally interested in living in the present and planning a future. She won't need to know every detail about your life or every thought that crosses your mind. She's the kind of person who sees herself as part of a couple but still maintains her independence and identity.

Vitality and Security: You need a woman who is honest and reliable. She has a good understanding of what it takes to make a relationship work over the long haul. She wants to build a relationship that will last but doesn't need you for constant support.

Conflict Resolution: You'll be happiest with someone who isn't argumentative. Others say she's the kind of person who has no enemies because she's a diplomat. When misunderstandings do arise, she is more concerned about resolving the conflict than winning the fight.

The Extraversion scale assesses how you feel when you are around people. Extroverts are generally comfortable at the center of attention. They rarely feel a need for "alone time" and are almost always eager to meet new people. Introverts, on the other hand, avoid the spotlight when they can, approach many social gatherings with hesitation and relish time spent with good friends whom they know well.

While most people exhibit a mix of Introvert and Extrovert qualities based on what kind of social situation they are in, people who are strongly Extroverted often place the largest value on having many friends and making new friends easily. In contrast, people who are strongly introverted generally place the highest value on having a few very deep and meaningful friendships.

The dimensions of your profile which are associated with Extraversion are Emotional Energy, Sociability, Adaptability, Humor, Romantic Passion and Dominance.

Based on your profile, you are most compatible with women who fit the following descriptions:

Romantic Passion: Your ideal mate is a sensual and passionate woman who invests 100 percent in a relationship. She likes to lavish her partner with romantic gestures, such as love notes or flowers. She's the kind of woman who enjoys sentimental gestures, like preparing dinner for two.

Humor: Your ideal mate is the kind of person who entertains herself and others with jokes and observations about everyday life. She can generally see the humor in almost any situation, like people who contradict themselves or even a trip to the doctor. She loves a good joke and enjoys humor, whether stand-up acts, satire or comics.

Some additional details about your ideal mate:

Adaptability: Your ideal mate is someone who can think outside the box when faced with a problem. She's able to think of creative ways to solve a problem or resolve an argument. She tries to approach challenges with an open mind so that she's not tied to conventional solutions. Friends generally describe her as the kind of person who is calm in a crisis.

Emotional Energy: You'll be happiest in the long run with someone who is outgoing and vivacious. She's probably not happy to just sit by and watch life go by. She prefers doing to watching. She's more likely to want to tailgate before a big football game than sit at home alone watching it on TV. She's at her best when she's on the go.

Dominance: You are best suited to someone who doesn't take competition to extremes. She likes to win but doesn't need to do so at all costs. She is aggressive when the situation warrants it - such as when vying for a promotion or playing tennis in front of a crowd - but can accept a loss with grace.

Sociability: You'll be happiest with a woman who likes to spend time with old friends and make new ones. She might not always be the first to strike up a conversation with a stranger, but she is rarely tongue-tied once the conversation is underway. At parties, she's the type of person who isn't afraid to venture outside her group of friends.

Openness refers to a person's willingness to experience new and creative ideas. People who score low on Openness tend to place a high value on tradition and belonging to a group. People who score high on Openness tend to place a high value on imagination and individualism. Extreme scores on Openness also often distinguish between people who enjoy thinking in symbols and abstractions to people who prefer ideas which are clear and concrete. The dimensions of your profile that we consider as part of Openness are Artistic Passion, Curiosity and Intellect.

Based on your profile, you are most compatible with women who fit the following descriptions:

Artistic Passion: You are best suited to someone who wants art and culture in her life. She probably enjoys attending events and performances, such as the theater, poetry readings and art exhibitions. Friends see her as the kind of person who needs regular exposure to the arts in order to be happy.

Curiosity: You will be well matched with a woman who is eager to find out about the world. She likes new experiences and off-the-beaten-path adventures. Friends and family probably think of her as the kind of person who enjoys learning about anything and everything. She's interested in finding out about new people, places and things, whether it's through taking a trip, visiting a museum or watching a documentary.

Intellect: Your ideal mate is smart, educated and knowledgeable. She is astute and has varied interests in subjects such as literature or languages. Other people see her as someone who's looking for friends who are her equal in terms of intelligence or knowledge.

Physicality separates people who enjoy being physically energetic and active from those who are uncomfortable or dislike engaging in sports or strenuous activity. Some people push life to the limit, scaling mountains or competing in triathlons. People with a less demanding sense of Physicality enjoy looking at mountains more than climbing them.

The dimensions of your profile which comprise the most important aspects of your Physicality are Appearance, Physical Energy and Sexual Passion.

Based on your profile, you are most compatible with women who fit the following descriptions:

Sexual Passion: You'll be most fulfilled by the kind of woman who believes sex is an important part of a great relationship - but not the only part. She is looking for physical chemistry with a man, the kind of spark that comes from genuine romantic attraction. However, she also appreciates that there is more to a "real relationship" than sex.

Appearance: You are most compatible with a woman who wants to look good but doesn't obsess over it. She will appreciate the time and effort you put into your appearance and be happy with the end result. Ultimately, however, she is more concerned with who you are than what you look like.

Physical Energy: You are best suited to the kind of woman who lives by the adage that slow and steady wins the race. She doesn't need to be active in order to be happy. She generally wants to take time out to relax on weekends. She doesn't need to incorporate physical activities, like running a 5K or going for a hike, into her day in order to feel good about herself.

Goal Orientation refers to the drive to plan for the future versus the urge to live in the moment. People who score low on Goal Orientation are generally spontaneous and free spirited. They are likely to act on their first impulse and worry about the consequences afterwards and place a high value on being clever and lucky.

People who score high on Goal Orientation, on the other hand, are more driven to think about future consequences before acting, place a high value on being wise and cautious and like to always put their best foot forward. The dimensions of your profile that relate to your Goal Orientation are Industry, Ambition, Organization and Education.

Based on your profile, you are most compatible with women who fit the following descriptions:

Ambition: You will be happiest with a woman who isn't satisfied with second best. She sets personal goals and works hard to achieve them. She is the kind of person who is always seeking and taking on new challenges to advance her career and personal life. She will also be able to understand your ambitions and help you pursue your goals.

Industry: You are most compatible with someone who works hard but avoids bringing too much stress and worry home. She likes to stay busy, but she doesn't need to fill every moment of every day with some task or chore. She's generally efficient, persistent and productive, but she doesn't obsess over making lists of things to do or accomplish.

Some additional details about your ideal mate:

Education: Your ideal mate is a woman who wants her partner to be a person who is her intellectual equal. She's the kind of person who discusses the issues of the day, like politics, religion, science or the arts. She values learning and is accomplished academically.

Organization: Your ideal mate is the type of person who keeps her home neat and clean, without being obsessive about it. She likes to be structured at home, and make sure everything has its place. But she won't look down on you if you kick off your shoes and don't straighten them at the door. She's good at creating a home that's comfortable and welcoming, the perfect place to relax.

While day-to-day events play a major role in our feelings, there are deep seated patterns of emotion that underlie our personality and stretch across the span of our lives. These patterns are considered your Emotional Temperament. People who score high on Emotional Temperament are generally upbeat about life, are slow to get upset in the face of minor setbacks or disappointments. People who score low on Emotional Temperament are more likely to experience feelings such as anxiety, anger and depression on a regular basis. The dimensions of your profile that comprise your Emotional Temperament are Mood Management, Self Concept, Emotional Status, Anger Management and Obstreperousness.

Based on your profile, you are most compatible with women who fit the following descriptions:

Anger Management: Your ideal mate is a master at remaining calm in the midst of a heated argument. Even in the middle of a fight, she can think clearly and avoids getting defensive, and she doesn't take cheap shots that'll make the fight worse.

Mood Management: You are most compatible with someone who avoids taking bad moods out on others. She knows that everyone has their moody days, so she won't overreact when you're irritable. When she's in a foul mood, she'll usually make sure she doesn't take it out on others.

Some additional details about your ideal mate:

Self Concept: Your ideal match is someone who is self-assured and agreeable. She believes in herself, so she is willing to take the occasional risk. She wants to fit in but doesn't feel the need to change in order to do so. Her friends most likely describe her as someone who's secure.

Emotional Status: You are best suited to a woman who is grounded and composed. She doesn't overreact to things like financial setbacks or problems at work. She is self-possessed and generally doesn't have extreme mood swings. Her friends probably describe her as someone who never seems out of control. She's satisfied with her life.

Obstreperousness: Your ideal mate is someone who isn't afraid to stand up for her opinions, but doesn't always feel the need to do so. You need someone who has beliefs and confidence strong enough to match your own. However, you will not do well with someone who needs to dominate every conversation and win every argument. You will do best with someone who knows when to speak her mind, and when to just go along with the people around her.

Many significant ingredients, like upbringing, family goals and spirituality combine to form a person's values and beliefs. Whatever form they take, your values are one of the most powerful determinants of your behavior. Values are also play a large role in both whom we feel comfortable being around, and who we find attractive.

Dissimilarity in values generally causes discomfort or awkwardness in social situations. Although close friends, family and loved ones can often have one or two stark contrasts in their values, this is made possible by a greater number of shared values, backgrounds and experiences that provide a framework of comfort and similarity. When building an intimate relationship, establishing shared values early on is key to long term success. The dimensions that we consider as part of you Personal Values are Traditionalism, Spirituality, Family Goals and Altruism.

Based on your profile, you are most compatible with women who fit the following descriptions:

Altruism: Your ideal mate is the kind of woman who feels a personal responsibility to make the world a better place. When she sees a problem, she doesn't look for someone else to take care of it. She becomes part of the solution.

Family Goals: Your ideal mate is not looking to start a new family. However, she enjoys spending time with family and feels that strong family connections are an important and vibrant part of life.

Some additional details about your ideal mate:

Spirituality: Your ideal mate isn't the kind of person who gets involved with a religious community. She generally only attends religious services for weddings and funerals, and even then she's uncomfortable with organized religion.

Traditionalism: You'll be happiest with a woman who considers herself a good person: She has strong values and her moral beliefs are an important part of who she is. She probably believes that values related to religion, country and family provide important general guidelines for life.

Family Background: Your ideal mate has a good relationship with her family, but it's not perfect. They enjoy spending time together but do have occasional disagreements. She's understands that family dynamics can work even when they're not perfect.

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